If YOUR husband were cheating on you would you want to know...?

...and would it matter if the info came from the mistress. (For those of you thinking I was out for revenge, I'd be lying if I said it weren't a fringe benefit, but if I were married, I'd want to know who I was married to. Also, don't SOME men cheat repeatedly because we, women, allow them to? Many women seem to be afraid of men for no good reason. Most men who cheat just want to have with someone other than their wives. It doesn't mean they're ax murderers. If that were true, NONE OF US would have with any man because we'd be paranoid that they'd be married-ax murderers). Revenge was a nice perk, but not the major reason why I fessed up to his wife. Men would tell their friends if their wives were messing around. I think women should view each other, even if we're strangers, as friends. I would want to know, so that's why I told. Good riddance to him. He lied to me, to her and his kids. No one put a gun to his head and made him cheat. It was his own bad decision, now he has to deal with the consequences. Men claim their strong, so let's see if they can deal with the consequences of their choices.