Family problems someone help?

see i been looking for a place for the longest that didn't work my uncle and i were going to be roomies along with my baby that's DUE in june and my boyfriend of two years.my uncle thought everything happens on his time and his time only so i pitch that idea out of the window and plus i really didn't want to live with him in the first place he drinks more than an average person,he like to bump old school rap and plus he got two kids and that's a mess im going to eventually have to clean. mind you i still live at home with my mom and her other five kids that are rude and like to go through peoples personal stuff and who have the foulest mouths on top of that our is infested with roaches and bedbugs.here is where i need help at my boyfriend lives in Tennessee his mom and grandma keep asking me live down there With them but my boyfriend want to live where i am at but want have no place to stay,because i refuse to ask my mom can he stay because she going think i owe her the world . and plus i dont wamt to raise my child in this house period so should i just flle off and along where together that should be all that matter i can go to school there and get a job and my own place just start my life the alternative way